CHICAGO TRIBUNE - Apr 14 - An overwhelming majority of Americans believe in the idea of soul mates. Psychologists and relationship experts are saying that multiple people can match each other romantically. "There are likely several people with whom any one individual could be compatible," says relationship expert Gary Lewandowski. A 2016 Match.com survey found that men fall in love over three times in their lives, while women fall in love a little more than twice in her life - a stat that appears to dispute the idea that "you're the only one for me." Part of the reason why love interests change over a lifetime is because people change - and partners might grow apart.