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Category: Reporters – Elizabeth Bernstein

Single People Want Deeper Connections and More Substance

Posted on November 16, 2022

Dating picWALL STREET JOURNAL – Singles are emerging from the pandemic more serious about finding a partner and less focused on looks, according to the latest Singles in America study, conducted by researchers at the Kinsey Institute and funded by Match. ~75% of the study's participants say they want to find a partner who wants to marry, roughly similar to last year and up from 58% in 2019. Singles became more interested in finding a stable partner and they're spending more time on phone calls and video chats before meeting IRL. Today, one-quarter of singles say they've had a video chat with a date before meeting in person, up from 6% in 2019. Each year, researchers ask single people what they’re looking for in a partner. The No. 1 answer this year is "someone to trust and confide in." Physical attraction dropped out of the top five during the pandemic.

by Elizabeth Bernstein
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Some Tips From a Dating Coach

Posted on December 11, 2018

Diana kirschnerWALL STREET JOURNAL – Dec 10 – Dating coaches differ from therapists by focusing on the present – helping people modify the behaviors and beliefs that prevent them from finding a romantic partner. They work with clients for short periods to assist them in meeting specific goals. But unlike most therapists, dating coaches don't have to be licensed. "The world of dating coaching is like the Wild West," says David Steele, founder of the Relationship Coaching Institute, an organization that offers training for coaches. So singles should watch out for coaches who come across as too slick or who use fear to motivate them. Why look to a stranger for help with something so personal? Coaches are more objective than friends or family members. The best coaches don't tell people what to do. They help them figure out themselves. Here are some recommendations from Diana Kirschner, founder of Love Mentor Coaching, to her clients:

  • Be clear about what you're looking for.
  • Casually date three people at first. Don't have sex right away.
  • Optimize your profile if you're online dating. Lead with your qualities and don't be afraid to talk about what you want.
  • Be open to meeting someone anywhere.
  • Practice talking to attractive strangers.
  • Be open about your intentions.
  • If you like someone, ask the person out.
  • Don't take rejection personally.

by Elizabeth Bernstein
See full article at Wall Street Journal

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Risk Factors For Cheating: Age, Gender And Relationship Satisfaction

Posted on January 28, 2015

Infidelity threeWSJ – Jan 26 – People are more likely to cheat on a partner in the year before a milestone birthday, according to researchers who worked with Ashley Madison. This suggests that there is roughly a 10-year cycle for heightened risk of infidelity. Here are the risk categories. People who engage in infidelity typically fall into more than one.

  1. Gender – Men are more likely to cheat.
  2. Age – Not only 9-enders are at heightened risk of cheating. People 35 – 50 tend to be focused on careers and kids. So people younger or older have a greater chance of cheating.
  3. Opportunity – Researchers call this “environmental” risk. For example: traveling frequently without a spouse put people at a heightened risk for infidelity.
  4. Relationship Dissatisfaction

by Elizabeth Bernstein
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Online, Is Dream Date A Scam?

Posted on May 4, 2011

Scammer WSJ – May 4 – Many of the profiles on dating sites are scams, fake profiles people put up as a tool to trick people into giving them money. eHarmony spokesman Paul Breton says the company tries to educate members about safety, and a full-time team reviews profiles using technology and their instincts. The online dating industry says scammers represent a small fraction of all profiles. "But scammers are aggressive," says Mark Brooks, an industry consultant who has worked with Cupid and PlentyofFish. At the FBI, one Cyber Division section chief, Tim Gallagher, says most scammers operate from abroad, especially West Africa and the former Soviet republics. Brooks said: "Online-dating sites use three lines of defense against scammers. There's technology: An automated system will track how many messages a profile sends per hour, or searches for words like "wire." A security team may scan suspicious profiles. Most reputable sites encourage users to flag inappropriate behavior, including money requests." Global Personals, the British owner of U.S. sites including Texasdating.com and Theseniordatingagency.com, says it has a person—not a computer—check every photo, profile and message. Global Personals estimates it identifies about a dozen scammers a day and pulls their profiles down immediately.

by Elizabeth Bernstein
See full article at WSJ

"The issue of scammers is a pressing problem and has been a major source of concern for most of our clients. Without an effective screening mechanism, it would spell big trouble for expanding dating sites" says Siamak Ayani, CEO of OculusAI, a company that provides Image Moderation services to Dating Sites. He adds that his company has been developing an intelligent system to flag scammers based on their images by comparing them with known scammer images.

(Full Disclosure: Global Personals and OculusAI are clients of Courtland Brooks)

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Scary New Dating Site: The Real World

Posted on March 29, 2011

Online dating keyboard WSJ – Mar 19 – For generations, people met at parties, in church or synagogue, through friends. But then we went online. We began making friends on Facebook and trolling for potential partners on websites like Match.com and eHarmony. Sometimes it works. That's, of course, if anyone bothers to email back. A lawsuit filed in Dec and seeking class-action status alleges more than half the profiles on Match.com are "inactive, fake or fraudulent." Match.com GM Mandy Ginsberg says the site's full-time fraud-prevention team works to identify and block fake profiles, including IPs that are in specific countries where fraud is prevalent or that try to set up multiple profiles. There are 1.7M paid subscribers on the site, Ms. Ginsberg says, and fraud happens to very few of them.

by Elizabeth Bernstein
See full article at WSJ

Mark Brooks: Sure, the real world is nice.  But online dating is nicer.  Why?  More selection, more safety, and dating sites allow people to get the tough questions out of the way up front.

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