TIMES RECORD -- Oct 25 -- "It was so dark she couldn't even see the ring," he said. It sparkles on her hand now. Tim's holding that hand, and describing the wedding band that will join it soon. They both shake their heads over their courtship. "It's been a little over six months," Tim said, "but with eHarmony and all those questionnaires and profiles, we learned so much so quickly." "We would recommend eHarmony to anyone, but be cautious," they advised. "Ask direct questions, and never give out personal information until you build up trust."