NEW YORK TIMES - June 25 - Alessandra Conti, a founder of Matchmakers In The City, a matchmaking service based in Beverly Hills, recommends that her clients not spend too much time on video dates. She and others compare dating to a skill set, or more so a muscle, that has to be consistently exercised in order to maintain. Choosing active, rather than intimate settings, can ease some of the apprehension of dating and create "a more chill environment."